
When I dropped Emma off at school this morning, the door was locked. And the principal was waiting by the door to talk to any parents who, well, needed someone to talk to. Then I heard from another mother that a police officer arrived shortly after I left. Just to make parents feel secure. I'm torn. I appreciate the support and the reassurance that my child is safe. But then again, I don't want her to be unnecessarily scared. So far, she knows nothing. And I don't plan on talking about it with her unless she asks. I hope and pray that having a police officer at school doesn't worry her. And I hope and pray that the older children don't hint at anything that the little ones can't take. I like her innocence and I want to preserve it as much as possible. What happened last week is really an isolated, uncontrollable incident. No matter how many drills you run or what precautions you take, it was unpreventable. I believe that.
Anyway, here I type. My "to do" list is looming. But instead of baking or wrapping or whatever else it is that I am supposed to be doing, I went and spent some time with Lindsay at daycare instead. I ate lunch with the kids and I rubbed Lindsay's back until she fell asleep. I left in tears. And now, I'm counting the minutes until I meet Emma at the bus stop. Then we're going to her dance studio's holiday party. I'm not sure how seeing all those healthy, happy, beautiful, full-of-life smiles will make me feel. Lucky, sad, and everything in between. But I'm also remembering right now. Even though I didn't know them, I will always remember those lives that were lost last week. And the only thing I can do for those parents who lost their children, I feel, is to cherish my own children -- to love them even more, to appreciate them more, and to remember more often how very lucky I am.